What’s more, using deceit and lies to get women to sleep with you really says more about you than about the women. Project Hollywood failed for the same reason. Learning pickup didn’t expand their social capacity, it lessened it. Sure, the tricks worked, but even if these nerds now hooked up with 3 women a week, they’d still have 0 female friends. Lesson 2: Pickup is really about men, not women.Īfter Project Hollywood, an experiment where Neil tried to live together with 3 other pickup gurus, failed, Neil started to come to grips why pickup wasn’t sustainable.Īs a result of their teaching and workshops, all of these lonely, anti-social, horny men found themselves among more lonely, anti-social, horny men, instead of women. Either way, you should use them to your advantage. Wherever you go, people will make assumptions about you, just like you do yourself. The turtle manipulated the social dynamics of the situation and used its presumed role of the scared, honest victim to “win” the discussion and save her life. The turtle swam and circled around before sticking its head out of the water and calling out to the two predators: “Thanks guys! I was saved by 2 idiots!” And thus the turtle swam away. Instantly the fox and the wolf grabbed the turtle and tossed it into the lake. Cunningly, the turtle said: “Water? Oh no, that’s the worst, I’ll die in water, please don’t throw me in the lake!” “Hmm, maybe we should throw it in the lake instead?” the wolf wondered. It’s my element and it makes me stronger than you could ever imagine!” Again the turtle responded: “Oh yes, please throw me into a fire. The fox whispered to the wolf: “Let’s throw it into a fire then!”. And even if you did, don’t you know without my shell I’m fast as lightning? Good luck catching me then!” The turtle wasn’t quick on her feet, but in her mind, and said: “Ha! You’ll never break my shell. “Let’s eat it! But we have to break the shell first.” The turtle then overhears their discussion. It goes like this:Ī wolf and a fox spot a turtle on their way, and instantly pin it to the ground. It reminded me how Barney always talked his way out of things on How I Met Your Mother and of a Cambodian kid’s story my girlfriend told me. Whether people think you’re dorky, smart, a loser, musclehead, or an ass, you can take those assumptions and use them to your advantage. That means not only can you turn the tables when you’re the shy guy amongst a flock of beautiful women, but also among men. What’s worth remembering is that social dynamics can be manipulated altogether. However, that shouldn’t be your takeaway. Of course the blink said social situations can be manipulated to help you seduce women. If you want to save this summary for later, download the free PDF and read it whenever you want.ĭownload PDF Lesson 1: Social dynamics can be manipulated.
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